Got a haircut last wednesday… muhahah… I’m all spikey now… no more long hair… I was getting sick and tired of the wind pushing my hair into my face so… ^_^ But I think I like my long hair style better… I feel strange without bangs… at least that’s what I think they are called.
The Nice Guy Theory:
Nice guys have lots of lady friends. They are generally sensitive, caring, kind… you get the idea. Ladies always seem to say this is the type of person they are looking for. But when you think about it… how many nice guys get dates because they are “nice”? I personally don’t know that many. Most of the guys I know that get girlfriends are personified by the ideal “macho” male stereotype: strong, outgoing, dominant, good looks, dress well, etc… like they walked straight out of a GQ magazine. There are exceptions, but in general, this is what I’ve noticed. So being a nice guy only gets you the following: “But I only think of you as a friend…” If you are out to get a girlfriend or a date, it’s more a matter of how you dress, and the macho-ness of your personality then how “nice” you are.
hmmm, I think when they say “nice guys finish last”, maybe they mean… after the girls are having fun with the bad boys, or getting abused, used, whatever… that’s when in the end, after they get tired of that and wanna settle down and get married, they look for a “nice guy”. But bleh, after getting all banged up by other guys, who da heck would want them. There are exceptions, there are those who truly like the nice guys cuz they’re nice. They’re the ones worth waiting for. Others simply aren’t.